Monday, April 11, 2011

refrigerator people.

When I was in Grad School, one of my friends did a speech about refrigerator people.  Basically, she said that one way you could measure your success is by counting how many refrigerator people you have in your life.  I have never forgotten that.  A refrigerator person is someone who comes to your house to visit; and feels like they can open your fridge, dig around a little, and choose something without asking.  I love it.

I have always loved to entertain.  I love to get everyone together.  I am sure I have annoyed my mother over the years with the "get togethers" I organized at her house.  I want so much for my home to be a welcoming environment for people...like my Granny Millie's house.   

I read a neat blog post today about preparing for guests.  Check it out.  This lady is one of my favorite bloggers.  I am always learning from her.  The blog is about preparing for your guests by praying for them and the visit.  This is one area that I have not thought much about during my prep for people.  I clean and think about what I am going to cook, but I don't spend time in prayer for the visit.  Hello???.  It is so crazy that I forget that entertaining/hospitality is a joy for me because it has been gifted to me by my heavenly father.  I get so wrapped up in enjoying it, I forget about the one who gave it to me, and that I should talk to Him about how He wants me to use it.   Great lesson to learn.